Places and Faces: Wanderlust Bedtime Stories Part II

As fascinating as new places and beautiful sceneries are, faces, and people intrigue me the most. I am always super curious about people and their stories and I always attempt to seek them out everywhere I go, especially in foreign land.

Read: Wanderlust Bedtime Stories: Places and Faces Part I

I believe that people are always more open and willing to share, when they travel. I think the logic behind this is pretty obvious – you’re in a foreign place with a total stranger that you may never see again, or you’re in your country with a total stranger who may never visit again. Either way, there’s an air of vulnerability and the sense that it is a judgment-free zone. That certainly makes sharing, ten times easier.

Alfredo, the craft maker – consistent

I was first drawn to Alfredo when I spotted his hat. It read “solo bueno” which means “only good” in Spanish. That was a really simple, yet solid message I could get behind and it spurred me on to strike a conversation with him. I was relieved to hear that he could speak some English as my Spanish was really, really rusty. After exchanging pleasantries, Alfredo opened up about himself and his work. Alfredo was into craft making and he told me how he had done that for 43 years of his life. I was surprised and asked him why he did that for so long and that was when he gave me an answer, “I have three boys and it is with this job that I sent them all to school. It has done me well and there is no need to change it.

Sarah from Australia- Quiet and intelligent

Sarah was quiet, and introverted, but absolutely intelligent and witty. She will listen more than she spoke but everytime she said a word, it was pure gold. She knew her stuff, she was wise beyond her age, wasn’t trying too hard and had so much substance. We all looked forward to hear what Sarah had to say, even though she said only a few words. Conversing with her only reiterated to me that “a good speech is like a pencil, it has to have a point.” I took so many lessons from her back home with me.

Kokaso, the boy at the cathedral- well mannered 

If I ever needed to show an example of how well mannered I wanted my kids to be, I’ll probably point in the direction of Kokaso. He was highly respectful, well mannered and just generally level-headed. I was so impressed with his manners- before leaving, I offered to give him a gift, he declined. He had proceeded to ask his mum for permission first. His mum declined my “little offer” and I immediately saw where that behaviour came from. An apple does not fall too far from the tree. No surprises here!

Unnamed stranger – Street performer- Attention to detail

Unnamed stranger was the first person I met while strolling through the streets of Havana with my sister. He called for us and immediately starts playing his saxophone which sounded absolutely amazing. Our conversations were short and “transactional” but I was really taken by how much attention to detail he pays to his craft. I mean, it’s not everyday you see a street performer who matches his instrument with his tie. That’s screams, “I mean business!”

Unnamed stranger – Construction worker- Exhibits of self-love

‘Unnamed stranger’ was a construction worker I met while doing his job cheerfully. I was walking aimlessly with my camera, looking for sloths, when he signaled for my attention. He asked me to take shots of him and every time I did, he came down from his truck to look at the photos. He’ll disagree with the outcome, saying, “no, no I am more handsome than this” and then climb back up to his truck, and ask me for a retake. I was enjoying the self-love that was on display and just how much he was proud of his job and so confident of himself. That’s always a winner.

Alberto, Sr.- Persuasive and charming

I met Alberto and his son while taking a leg break in La Fortuna. Alberto walked up to me to have a conversation and of course, I was open to the idea. He told me about how his son and said so many flattering words about him. After a couple of minutes, his son walks in to join the conversation and that was when it hit me, Alberto was “marketing” his son to me the entire time. You could see the way his eyes lit up when he spoke so proudly about his son and all of his achievements. Alberto Jr. was his father’s pride and I love the relationship that existed between them.

Krystal- bubbly, adventurous and full of life

Krystal was just a breath of fresh air. Always positive, bubbly, and smiling. Everytime she was about to do something scary, she will say- “you know what Ufuoma, YOLO, let’s just do it because we may never have another opportunity to do so.”  She was adventurous, always present, living in the moment and had an incredible aura around her. You know those people you meet that you immediately take a liking to because of how easy and simple they are, she was one. I think everyone can take lessons from Krystal.

YOLO- You Only Live Once.

A challenge for you: The next time you travel, make a conscious effort to chat with the locals, or your fellow travelers. There’s so much to learn from even the seemingly mundane everyday conversations. Go the extra mile to mix with the locals. Do we have a deal?
I’ll love to hear from you. Tell me some of the most memorable people you have interacted with on your travels. And if you haven’t already, tell me how you plan on achieving this the next time you explore your city, or a foreign land. Curious to read your answers.
Note: All photos were taken with the permission of the people above.
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Working Professional by day, Travel Blogger by night. Here, I share my personal life and travel experiences as well as helpful tips to help readers start their own travel journey. Want to talk? Contact me on info@theufuoma.com. Don't be a stranger!

19 Comments

  1. Love it! I actually have a draft post that I haven’t gotten around to finishing on some of the most interesting people I’ve met. Meeting a hostage negotiator is up there for me!!!

    Thanks for sharing particularly the lessons from each one.

  2. I love this series! Always exciting getting to meet diverse people when you travel. Loved their stories too. I feel like I can relate to every story here. From the man who’s training 3 kids from pure hard work to a lady who wouldn’t be pressurized into settling while she isn’t ready.. to Sarah, the quiet and intelligent adventurer (Sarah is me too – hoping that the intelligent part is correct in my case) . To my future kids being as well mannered (and as cute) as Kokaso.

    The unnamed street performer enforces the message that whatever your hands find doing, do it well and the construction worker just exudes the level of charming confidence I aim for. (Lesson: When you know what you’re worth, no one can tell you you are less than that). Lesson from Alberto, be the kind of daughter my parents are proud to tell friends or ‘strangers’ about. (Maybe a marriage proposal can come about that way – just saying! lol)

    And lastly, Krystal tells me that you owe it to yourself to live the best life you can NOW.

    This was definitely an insightful post. Apart from the excellent pictures – which I loved, the lessons to take from it are very profound. Thanks for sharing, Ufuoma.

    1. Ah, thanks Amarachi. I love how you have highlighted all the lessons you learnt from the series. It’s amazing how people can learn different things from one scenario and that is why I love to share these stories. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.

      -U.

    1. Thanks Sierra. Now I can always come back to read it and remember some of the cool people I have met while traveling.

  3. How nice. I like how you’ve noted what you learned from each one of them. I usually like to start a conversation with anyone working in a restaurant when I visit a place for the first time. I guess they help you make good food decision and then you can always talk about other things.
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  4. This is so lovely. Really great portraits and interesting, revealing stories. It’s hard for me to open up and talk to people when I’m traveling (especially because I’m usually with my husband, so I don’t need to), but whenever I do it’s always rewarding and teaches me something.

    1. Thank you Sarah. That extra effort can be so rewarding. Here’s to more conversations with the people we meet when we travel.

  5. I had a smile on my face reading this entire post! I love the guy who kept having you retake his photo – I would love to have the confidence to say ‘No, retake this photo. I am more beautiful than this!’ Looking forward to more like this in the future <3

  6. I love how you talked to such a diverse group of people! It’s a reminder for me to be braver about starting conversations with other people. I like to keep to myself but sometimes you just get the most awesome stories by saying hello or smiling at someone else 🙂

    1. That is so true. We have to be brave and open to talking to people. There are so many lessons to learn from doing that. Thanks Jac.

  7. Kokaso is so cute!

    Self love is key, i wish a lot of people pay attention to this. Working on it myself.

    I never pay attention to people when i travel, I will def try when next i travel.

    Lovely Post.

    You are amazing. – Titi

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